Hello, again guys. I am back with the third video in the series of videos on “how to move on –Thinking about separation and divorce”. You can watch the rest of the videos on my YouTube channel-YouTube Link Thinking About Divorce. So in this video, we discuss about what happens next once you have decided to move on from your relationship and when you are finally in a new space all by your own. When I look back and talk about my experience, once I had decided that I was not going to continue my marriage anymore, it was my first time living in a house all by my own self. I moved in to a small one bedroom apartment along with my daughter. I must admit, it was really hard. Being an Asian woman, I had lived with my parents before getting married and I always had that sense of protection and that feeling that someone is with me and that I am not alone. Even though my family would help me all along, they actually were not happy with my decision of separation.
Watch Part 1 Here : Thinking about seperation-Part 1
Watch Part 2 Here :Thinking about seperation-Part 2
I did have one great friend who was there pouring in all the support but that was pretty much it. Despite all the love and support that I was getting from my family and friends, I would still feel very lonely and devastated. A lot of my days went by crying and being depressed. So you must keep in mind that once you have taken that decision of separation, these things come with it. You cannot escape them no matter how much you want to and no matter how much you try. But know that you will work through them, you will come out even stronger than before. Please watch the video to know about my journey through all these phases in detail. I will see you guys next time with a new video!