Hi again guys with the second video as a part of my video series “How to move on”.As you guys might know i have started a new video series on my YouTube channel-YouTube Link Thinking About Divorce. In the last video we talked about when is it time for you to know when to move on from a marriage and how did I decide that. Today, we are going to talk about how you feel once you have taken that decision. So what do you do once you are overwhelmed with the thoughts of moving away? Where do you go? Who do you talk to about it? Talking to family or friends about it can have both positive and negative impacts. They can either support your decision or completely change your mind by giving complete new directions to your thought process.
Even though having such diversified opinions is great because you are in a time where you actually need such support. I believe that the most important thing to do in such times to give yourself time. Just find a place where you can have just your own company and solitude and start writing about your feelings in a notebook or in your phone or whatever you feel comfortable with. Ask yourself questions like whether this is what you have wanted? Whether it’s something which makes you feel good/bad? Would you rather be happier somewhere else. What is it that will help you to be the best version of yourself? You will most likely get different answers each time you ask yourself these questions.
Watch Part 1 Here : Thinking about seperation-Part 1
But eventually, you will start seeing a pattern. As for me Even though we did look like a normal family, each time I would ask myself if I was happy, the answer would be no.This is when I knew that there were serious problems in my marriage. So I encourage you all to make that connection with yourself as it will come in very handy to answers all the questions that you have in mind. For more details on the topic, please watch the video and I will soon be coming up with the part 3 of the series.